Sometimes We Should Just Stop. And Remember.

February 23, 2009 in Insidery, Sad

I’ve just been informed that Aaron Altman’s father has died.

As a mark of respect to our fellow Wordsmoker we’re shutting shop early.

I’m sure – like us – your thoughts, wishes, prayers are with Aaron at this time.




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  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/saythatscool/ saythatscool

    Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone

    W. H. Auden

    Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone,
    Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone,
    Silence the pianos and with muffled drum
    Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come.

    Let aeroplanes circle moaning overhead
    Scribbling on the sky the message He Is Dead,
    Put crepe bows round the white necks of the public doves,
    Let the traffic policemen wear black cotton gloves.

    He was my North, my South, my East and West,
    My working week and my Sunday rest,
    My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song;
    I thought that love would last for ever: I was wrong.

    The stars are not wanted now: put out every one;
    Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun;
    Pour away the ocean and sweep up the wood.
    For nothing now can ever come to any good.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/lipsticklibrarian/ LipstickLibrarian

    Oh, man. Aaron, I’m sending love and hugs your way.

    STC: That poem always gets me.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/unfun/ Unfun

    Aaron, you are one of the most caring, sensitive and thoughtful individiuals I have ever known, and I can only imagine any man who brought you up was a great man indeed. Love and thoughts are with you.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/curly-q-tips-2/ Curly Q Tips

    We give them back to thee, dear Lord, who gavest them to us;
    Yet as thou dost not lose them in giving, so we have not lost them by their return.
    Not as the world giveth, givest thou, O Lover of Souls.
    What thou gavest, thou takest not away,
    For what is thine is ours also if we are thine.
    And Life is eternal and Love is immortal, and death is only an horizon, and an horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight.
    Lift us up, strong Son of God, that we may see further;
    Cleanse our eyes that we may see more clearly;
    Draw us closer to thyself so that we may know ourselves to be nearer to our loved ones who are with thee.
    And while thou dost prepare a place for us, prepare us also for that happy place, that where thou art we may be also for evermore.

    Prayer used by Fr Bede Jarrett, O.P.

    Blessings and strength to all who loved him.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/anonymous/ Because Sexus, Plexus and Nexus

    So sorry for your loss, Aaron.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/sidandfinancy/ SidAndFinancy

    Unfun put it better than I ever could. Sorry to hear this news, Aaron.

  • http://subjecttochange.tumblr.com/ Meg

    My sincerest condolences, Aaron. Love you and am here for you. My thoughts to you and your family.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/sistermarymartha20/ SisterMaryMartha2.0

    Aaron- all my love and support.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/bringmemytofu/ BringmemyTofu

    Aaron, I am so sorry to hear this news. My thoughts are with you and your family.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/fracturedacetabulum/ FracturedAcetabulum

    Aaron-all my love and support.
    I’m sorry for your loss.

  • BookishLookish

    Aaron, lots of love and strength to you this week. We are all thinking about you. I am raising a glass in honor of Aaron’s daddy tonight.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/josiegroper/ josiegroper

    Aaron,
    I am sorry for the loss of your father. Prayers to you and your family through this tough time.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/formerenglishmajor/ FormerEnglishMajor

    Aaron:

    I am so sorry for your loss. May you and your family find strength in your memories of him, and in the people he brought together and around you through his life. Our thoughts are with you.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/lysergic-asset/ Lysergic Asset

    Aaron: What they said. No words are enough.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/llamalash/ Llamalash

    I’m sorry for your loss, Aaron. You’ll be in my thoughts.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/sarahheartburn/ SarahHeartburn

    http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_sNki1l6-jfc/SY9nQz2ZPAI/AAAAAAAAVPI/bfS6SxwWDS0/S1600-R/Watterson_Calvin-1993-09-19.JPG

    Love, Sarah, Calvin and Hobbes.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/thehonjudgesmails/ TheHonJudgeSmails

    My heart goes out to you and your entire family. As Unfun said, he gave the world a very kind and interesting son, which is the true mark of a great man and father.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/captainfantastic/ CaptainFantastic

    Sorry to hear that AA. You’re probably the nicest guy on the internet, so he must have done a good job. Take care of yourself.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/forwardmotion/ forwardmotion

    I’m so sorry.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/fishnetsandcigarettes/ Fishnets & Cigarettes

    My sincere condolences, Aaron. Sending hugs, prayers, strength and good wishes to you and your family.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/princesskashmir/ PrincessKashmir

    Aaron, I’m so sorry. My heart is with you.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/baroness/ Baroness

    My sympathies to you.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/souplines/ souplines

    dear aaron

    i left a note on tumblr but i realized you don’t follow me so i will leave a note here to express my deepest sympathies to you and your family at this most difficult time. The suffering is done. The memories will live on. Each of us carries a piece of our parents with us, and I am sure Dad was and is proud of his son and his family.

    Alan

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/fictionsinmotion/ Vaquero

    I love you very much, Aaron. Much love to you and your family.

  • Un Chien Andalou

    Oh Wingman. My brother.

    He who has gone, so we but cherish his memory, abides with us, more potent, nay, more present than the living man.

    Antoine de Saint-Exupery

    a day of true heartache. I love you.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/sproing/ Sproing

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/pufflehuff/ pufflehuff

    Oh, Aaron. You and your family have my deepest sympathy. It won’t always hurt as badly as it does right now, I promise.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/iceland-spar/ Iceland Spar

    AA – wanted to pass along my sympathies and let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you, your father and your whole family.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/helmangiraffe/ helmangiraffe

    Aaron, I am so sorry for your lost. I — all of us here — wish we could help you carry the grief. We are thinking of you.

    And you are the nicest man on the internet.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/numbersix/ numbersix

    I’ll say it here as well — zichrono livrakha, and my thoughts to you and yours, friend.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/jasonelias/ jasonelias

    Very sorry to hear this Aaron.

  • mmstk101

    I’m so sorry for your loss Aaron.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/pikadar/ PikaDar

    Words don’t convey it. So please, feel what I am trying to say. Maybe this prayer will be worthy of some such.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/adismalscience/ ADismalScience

    Condolences.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/fileunder/ fileunder

    I’ve been (silently) followiing your tumblr, and your dedication to him this last month has been remarkable. My thoughts are with you and your family tonight.

    (This was very classy Virus – thanks.)

  • http://isopod.tumblr.com gecko

    I love you, my friend, and wish I could somehow help to bear the burden, offer a hug, or hold a hand.

    In lieu of that, all my love and prayers.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/voxpopuli/ VoxPopuli

    Hugs, Aaron. I’m so sorry to hear about this.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/berightback/ berightback

    心からお悔やみをお述べします。あなたの事を想っているよ、アーロンさん。

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/monkeyrash/ monkeyrash

    I’m sorry.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/maelstrom/ Maelstrom

    Under the wide and starry sky
    Dig the grave and let me lie.
    This be the verse you gave for me,
    Here he lies where he longed to be;
    Glad did I live and gladly die,
    And I laid me down with a will.
    Home is the sailor, home from the sea
    And the hunter home from the hill.
    Robert Louis Stevenson

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/maelstrom/ Maelstrom

    They are not gone who pass
    Beyond the clasp of hand,
    Out from the strong embrace.
    They are but come so close
    We need not grope with hands,
    Nor look to see, nor try
    To catch the sound of feet.
    They have put off their shoes
    Softly to walk by day
    Within our thoughts, to tread
    At night our dream-led paths
    Of sleep.

    They are not lost who find
    The sunset gate, the goal
    Of all their faithful years.
    Not lost are they who reach
    The summit of their climb,
    The peak above the clouds
    And storms. They are not lost
    Who find the light of sun
    And stars and God.

    They are not dead who live
    In hearts they leave behind.
    In those whom they have blessed
    They live a life again,
    And shall live through the years
    Eternal life, and grow
    Each day more beautiful
    As time declares their good,
    Forgets the rest, and proves
    Their immortality.

    Hugh Robert Orr

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/maelstrom/ Maelstrom

    Lots of love

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/rosaluxembourgeoise/ Rosa Luxembourgeoise

    Deepest sympathies to you and your family in this time of sorrow.

  • Adam Streeter

    So sorry to hear this, Aaron. Take care. Our thoughts are with you.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/senorwences/ Senor Wences

    With you.

  • DontMakeMe

    I’m so sorry about your Dad, Aaron, and for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/pikadar/ PikaDar

    As mentioned before, my thoughts are with you and all who are wondering.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/devilsavocado/ DevilsAvocado

    Oh, Aaron. You are a gentleman and a gentle soul. Surely your heart has broken into a million small pieces. Your father must have been an extraordinary man to raise such a radiant and brilliant son.

    In my small corner of the world, I mourn your loss. Know that I am thinking of you.

    DA

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/aaronaltman/ Aaron Altman

    My fellow Wordsmokers, Tumblerers, and readers too -

    Several thousand thanks for your words of kindness and for your thoughts and prayers. I love each and every one of you, and although we’ve never met, I know that in real life, you’d be hellagood friends, friends that Dad would be aiiight with.

    Hey, remember, the President’s making his first address to Congress tonight. That’s, like, totally mine-able for comedy, right? I think I’ll write a post. :-)

    Again, I love all of you, and thank you. Your support has made this whole ordeal easier to handle.

    Aaron

    PS Virus – still proud to call you “Boss”, Boss.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/sarahheartburn/ SarahHeartburn

    Happy trails, Aaron.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/indianslipper/ IndianSlipper

    Aaron best to you and yours at this tough time, certainly humor helps. And, to come and post here AND have a smiley face? Incredible.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/busyness/ Busyness

    Thinking of you a wishing you the comfort that happy memories can bring.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/lawyergay/ lawyergay

    AA: I only know you from your stupendously ingenious commentary here and elsewhere, and on that basis, I’m transmitting the maximum possible amount of love and white light to you.

  • http://wordsmoker.com/help/members-3/vivien-smith-smythe-smith/ Vivien Smith-Smythe-Smith

    Oh no. Kia kaha, AA!